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Out of contact

I just upgraded my phone, and I’m in the process of transferring all my stored numbers from the old handset to the new one, via the wonders of Bluetooth.

Because this is a fairly laborious process, I don’t want to transfer any numbers over which I don’t think are valid, or haven’t used for a long while, or think I won’t use again. This activity, which I complete every time I change phones - so, once a year or thereabouts - , causes a pruning effect among my contacts, by making me re-evaluate the viability of social and business contacts, which feels a little clinical, but has to be done, nevertheless.

So this year, I’m waving goodbye to a bunch of people who I haven’t been in touch with for ages (mostly business contacts, but some social acquaintences who I think must have moved number by now). My rationale is that if I ever need or want to get in touch with them again, there’ll be a better method to do it than randomly calling out of the blue, and these days I can be fairly confident that people are trackable-down (down-trackable?) via mutual contacts, t’internet and so on.

There are exceptions, of course. There are some names and contacts in particular (mostly social, but some business, too) which I hold on to, despite not having used their numbers for years, or been in touch with the contactee for as long. There’s something about not wanting to throw away the tiny bit of potential contact I have with someone, or in most cases, despite the number being (probably) obsolete, I don’t want to delete the idea of the person from my life. I want to be reminded of them, so that I am reminded to track them down if I do want to get back in touch with them at some point.

This goes beyond reason, and I know how silly it seems. But I bet other people do it, too…

I’m also reminded during this annual ritual, as ever, about how marvellous it would be if I could import the dictionary of all the words I’d taught my old phone, so that I don’t have to go through the process of teaching my new one all over again. I also think that such a word list would be fairly revealing about me, and my social communications….

Any ideas if/how this can be done these days?

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